Sometimes you're not supposed to get the job

One of the most common fears associated with job search is the fear of rejection.

We all hate to be rejected, and the job search is often a series of 'nos' - either implied (because no one calls you back) or overt (because they choose someone else for the job).

But however upsetting it is to be told no, I encourage you to think of it not as a personal rejection, but just as a sign that this wasn't the right thing for you.

Let's face it, if they didn't hire you then either (a) you actually weren't the right fit for that specific job, company and/or culture, or (b) you were the perfect fit and they're too inept to understand it. Either way, you deserve better!

Plus. who knows what will happen as a result of the 'no' you received? Many years ago, I was turned down for a job I really wanted. I think I cried for a week. But a few months later, I got a different job - where I met my now husband. If I had got the job I wanted, I wouldn't have met him, we wouldn't have moved to Canada together, and then to the US 7 years later, and we wouldn't have started our business together.

Knowing all this doesn't make rejection hurt any less, but it does help to remind me that sometimes you're just not supposed to get the job.

Cross-posted on Career Hub

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Brilliant advice! So true.